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I am just curious here. I am kind of wondering if anyone of you have already been into this kind of "friends with benefits" relationship wherein you are sexually involved with another person (probably someone you are close to) but don't have any commitment to each other. I think that's sort of a messy situation.
I don’t know how to say this but I know of someone who is very popular in school such that even the professors seems to be his fans. One lady professor who is married got close to this guy who was her student in the past year. The guy actually was hired as a personal driver of the lady professor. Do I need to say more of their relationship? Theirs was not only friendship but also an employer-employee relationship. What we saw was the material advantage that the guy receives from the lady professor. And although none of the two admitted their real relationship, we in his circle know of the real score.
I must admit I have been in this kind of relationship, it didn't start as you might think. I meet this girl at a pool party and really fast made a connection, few days after we started dating but she had a boyfriend and actually I was dating somebody too. What we did was to agree not get emotionally attached or in any kind of formal relationship, which didn't work at all but yes I have been there.
It can be messy for sure.
Especially if the both of you are really involved in the thought of casual sex. To tell the truth there is a 99% possibility that one of you will feel something really more.