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That's a big no-no for me. I never had sex on my first date. In fact I did not have sex until I was sure that the person is a right person. I also suggest everyone, mostly girls to stay away from first date sex. I know many girls who had been raped on their first date. Date rape is a big issue here.
I would definitely discourage any woman, particularly Pinays, from having sex right on the first date. Besides the risk of contracting STDs, Filipino males generally look down on women they can easily take to bed, notwithstanding how modern today's society is. I shudder at the thought of being one of the trophies in a man's collection. If a man asks me on the first date to have sex with him, I'll definitely think that he does not look at me as someone worth pursuing. Am I being prudish? I'd like to believe that majority of Pinays value their womanhood and virginity and would wait for the right time to get serious and intimate. I just can't go to bed the first time around and hope that he'll get serious with me afterwards. After all, there's more to relationships than having sex.
Sex at first date is not what I will encourage any pinoy girl to allow but then again some girls are very pretentious and spoiled that if a guy does not initiate sex at first date they'll write off the guy. They assume the young man is inexperienced, I think most of the girls not well nurtured like the bad or desperate guys more.
Sex on the first date can be inevitable, depending on the goal of the date. I don't think having sex on the first date is necessarily a bad thing, as a couple can still get along after that. At the same time we can also wait for a couple of dates before doing it.
sometimes difficult to refuse if guy you like say sex or go away
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