I don't want to bring anyone down, but I would choose the man I love, not because I watch too much telenovelas or anything LOL! Mainly because I believe in the power of hard work and independence. If you're an independent woman, if you work hard, if you want to make it on your own, you wouldn't care how much money or what kind of luxuries a man would give you, because you can get those by yourself.

Now I understand that some women has this idea that men are the "providers", well it's just not the world we live in anymore, (I mean it still kinda does but women are a lot stronger and can earn so much more unlike those times that women are said to be inferior to men), so my point is that if the first guy (the man of your dreams) is the one you love, then you should go for him. On the other hand, if you TRULY LOVE the guy who can make your dreams come true, not because of the cash he has, then you should go for him.