Maybe you have to think positive this time so as not to experience a repeat of a failed relationship. As they say in the local lingo, just ride on for the moment. That means don't get too serious with your new relationship. It's just like a new job with a probationary period. That means there are restrictions when it comes to intimacy. Maybe a kiss is okay but not more than that. After 2 months of continuous association and dating, you will get to know more of the guy and that's the time you have to decide if you want to end the probationary relationship or to continue and make it permanent.