Some women prefer to have a lover with no child in past relationship because they say having step children may complicate the relationship. Besides, the children will share in the attention and resources of the man. But isn’t this reason selfish?

Honestly, my husband has a child with his first wife but I accepted him just the same because his ex family was in the US while we are here in the Philippines. But when his daughter came by for a visit, I felt so insecure and I don’t know why.