There are certainly some complications when you enter into a relationship with a man who has a child/children from a previous marriage or relationship. However, if you truly love a person, you will have to deal with his past and his unique situation. I wouldn't mind having stepchildren and I'm sure I'd like them to feel loved by both parents and their extended families,specially when they're young and dealing with the pressures of school and their peers. In some cases, having stepchildren can help ease the pressure for a couple to produce children of their own specially when a spouse is barren or has health limitations.