We all go through a rough moments in life. I've had my share of defeat. Been there, done that. I was happy and been hurt. I was loyal, cheated on, trusted again, then betrayed again. Not just once but countless times by just one person. Its one sucking life, right?
Yeah, I sulked and cried for days and nights when I decided that it was finally over. There was years where the idea of dating again gave me chills. I was scared. The loneliness that I can felt at that time is better than the thought of the possibility of falling in love again and what, another possibility of failure again? For years, I was contented to being single.
But few months ago, I went on a vacation for a week. The island was full of couples. Sweet couples who are having fun, creating their memories and spending quality time. I felt a pang of pity for myself and envy. I realized that I missed the company of a loving someone. I may not have meet that someone but the fact that i am longing to be with some one means i am on my way to finding my own happiness, again.
Our life may be full of misfortunes. Life may never guarantee us that we will forever live happily ever after, but I think we owe it to ourselves to face the reality and try again. We can never win the race by sticking our feet on the same ground. We needed to let go of our fears and trust that we are worth loving and keeping.

There may be a lot of wrong guys out there, but it does not mean we are on the far end of living.